2 More Family Annihilators Being Glorified in the Press

There have been two murder-suicides this weekend: Jovan Belcher killed his girlfriend Kasandra Perkins before killing himself.  Keith Johnson killed his wife Andrea before killing himself. Today, two sets of families on two different continents are mourning the loss of their daughters; both murdered by their partners. Two women a week in the UK are murdered by the men who claimed to love them. Despite this fact, press coverage is always about what “nice” men they were. The coverage does not focus on the women murdered but on the careers and personal characteristics of the murderers. The coverage of the deaths of Kasandra Perkins and Andrea Johnson are no different.

The BBC coverage of the murder-suicide in Cromer includes these statements:     

Mr Johnson, a former mayor of Cromer, became Conservative leader of North Norfolk District Council in May.

Fellow Conservative councillor Trevor Ivory, a friend of the couple, said: “It’s a complete shock. I last saw them both on Thursday evening and they were both very happy and seemed to be enjoying life.  

“The words Cromer and Keith Johnson are synonymous. He typified what’s good about the town and the district of North Norfolk.” 

In a statement, North Norfolk Labour Party paid tribute to Mr Johnson. Chairwoman Denise Burke said: “The death of Keith is a tragedy and a massive loss to Cromer and North Norfolk, too.

“Keith has been a real public servant throughout his life and will be sorely missed by the whole community. He was much respected across the political spectrum.

“Our thoughts are with Keith’s friends and family at this time.”

If Johnson typified all that was good about Cromer, then they have some serious problems. This man murdered his wife and he will be sorely missed? What about his wife Andrea? Will she be sorely missed? Andrea barely gets a mention in the article. We know that the man who murdered her was a well-respected career politician but, his wife, just an addendum to the story. Was Andrea’s death not a tragedy? Just the death of her murderer? 

Jovan Belcher shot his girlfriend Kasandra Perkins before shooting himself in front of the coach and general manager of his football team, yet this story focuses on the fans and the team:

Although the game was unimportant — especially with neither the Chiefs (2-10) nor the Panthers (3-9) bound the playoffs — it did provide some relief for the team and community. 

Kasandra is just as absent from this article as Andrea. There is no discussion of the grief of her family and friends. There is no mention of her life at all. Both Andrea and Kasandra are being written out of the story of their murder whilst the eulogies of their murderers begins.

This is the War on Women. Not only do we pay for the hyper-masculinity within the Patriarchy with our bodies through rape, torture and our deaths but we are also written out of the stories of our own lives.

I await with sadness the inevitable stories to follow which will blame the women for their own murders.

UPDATE: This is an excellent article by Heather Harvey on the issue of male violence within patriarchal family structures.


9 thoughts on “2 More Family Annihilators Being Glorified in the Press”

    1. it’s utterly unbelievable.

      As you say – if he’s all that was good about Cromer… well, I for one never want to visit.

      Thoughts with Andrea’s family and friends

  1. It’s awful. I am really sick of this idea that we should treat every kind of violence as the result of some kind of mysterious illness or suffering – if a man rapes someone? He must be sick. If a man murders someone? Oh, clearly he was in some kind of torment, poor man.

    It seems as if it’s almost unacceptable to admit maybe these men were violent bastards who killed innocent women.

  2. Maybe I’m reading too much into the articles, but I think there’s a subtext that goes beyond sympathy for the man and for his friends and direct family. I think it’s victim-blaming. I think it’s saying that, given what a great bloke he was, she must have driven him to it.

    And whilst rape culture and abuse culture deems overt victim-blaming in cases of domestic abuse and sexualised violence to be socially acceptable, perhaps that’s no longer the case when the victim has been murdered.

    So instead they do it subtly, by writing the woman out of the story, by relegating her to a mere afterthought at best, as if there is something shameful about her.

  3. is there anywhere people can send cards to the REAL victims’ families? this fucked-up media spin must be killing them 🙁

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